My boyfriend gets mad when I don’t send him pictures. We’ve had an ongoing argument about this for a few months now. He says that he wants to see what I look like and that it’s not fair if I don’t send him pictures.

I’m not a model, and I don’t take pictures in my everyday life, so the only pictures I have are from events or special occasions. And even if I send him a picture of myself, he still complains about it not being good enough because it’s not recent enough.

I feel like he’s using this as a way to control me, because he will get upset with me if I don’t do what he wants me to do.

He also complains that I’m always busy with work or studying and that it makes him feel lonely. But when I try to spend time with him instead of working or studying, he gets mad at me for not spending enough time with him!

Last modified: August 11, 2022