It’s not cheating if your boyfriend (or husband) knows about it and he agrees to it. And for the most part, that’s what I have found.

Most of the men I know who have sugar babies are married. The reasons for this vary: Some men just want sex and companionship, while others want someone to care for them and help them with their business endeavors. A few are looking for a wife and family.

While some women might be concerned about being judged by their friends or family members because they’re dating a man who is much older than they are, I’ve never experienced this. In fact, most of my friends actually envy my relationship with my sugar daddy because they’re jealous of all the nice things he buys me!

I think the biggest misconception people have about having a sugar daddy is that it’s more serious than it really is. While you may develop feelings for him over time (which I did), most of these relationships are purely transactional in nature — meaning that you get something out of the relationship (financially) and he gets something out of it (sex).

Last modified: October 9, 2022