Hi! I am so sorry to hear about this. If you’ve found out that he’s been cheating on you and it’s not the first time, then you need to get him out of your life.
You should talk to him about why he cheated. Maybe it was just because he wanted sex and didn’t want to ask for it from you. Or maybe he was looking for something else.
If it’s just that he wanted sex, then you should tell him that if he wants to have a relationship with you, then he needs to be faithful and not have sex with other people. If he can’t do that, then there’s nothing more between us than what we started as – friends who had sex occasionally.
If it’s not just about wanting sex, then I think there’s a bigger problem in your relationship — namely, that you two don’t talk enough and don’t know each other well enough yet (or ever). If he doesn’t feel comfortable talking to you about his feelings and problems, then how can there be any kind of intimacy between the two of you?
It sounds like your boyfriend has some serious issues that need attention before anything else in your relationship can work out properly again.
Last modified: August 11, 2022