First of all, if you want to get spanked and your husband is not into it, then you need to ask for what you want. Don’t just wait around for him to offer it.
If he’s never spanked you before, there are ways to get him interested in it. It starts with communication and setting boundaries. You need to tell him what you want and be specific about what that means. If it’s too vague (“I want to be spanked”), then he might not know exactly what to do or how far he should go.
Let him know that the idea of being spanked turns you on and give him examples of times when you think it would have been hot if he had spanked you. This may sound strange, but being able to talk openly about sex will help both of you understand more about each other’s fantasies and desires.
Create a safe environment where both of you feel comfortable talking about sex and other things that are important in your relationship. A good place to start is by reading some articles in magazines or books on kinky sex play so that both of you can learn more about this type of activity before trying anything out in real life!
Last modified: August 1, 2022